Let's face it guys!
Women are generally complex, complicated, and sometimes, it becomes difficult to know exactly what a girl really likes or wants.
This is why getting a lady's attention can be one of the trickiest experiences for most men.
Flirting with a lady and getting her to like you is not a walk in the park for most of us guys. It is difficult to tell whether she likes you or not.
In this article, we share with you 24 clear signs that show that a lady might be interested in you.
Let’s dive right in.
1. She Enjoys Talking To You
The mere fact that she spares her personal time and enjoys talking to you is one of the earliest signs that a lady is interested in you. If a woman is not interested in you, she will show signs of dislike from the first time you say hello to her.
Women will out-rightly snob or deny you even in public if they dislike you. If she talks to you frequently and enjoys it, there's a high chance that she likes you.
2. She laughs at you jokes
Generally, men are created funny whereas women are created with a good sense of humor. This is why many women prefer and fall for guys who make them laugh. If a lady frequently listens to and laughs at your joke, then chances are that she likes you.
Remember, the laughter should be a considerable one and if you do it together, the better and easier for you to make her like you even more.
3. She Touches/Holds You Freely
Another early sign that a lady likes you is if she on many occasions, touches you or even holds your hand. Ladies find it quite uncomfortable to get into body contact with people they do not like.
Even a small gesture like touching your arm during a conversation is a clear sign that she likes you.
4. She smiles at you
This is another early sign that may be difficult to notice and tell as regards its authenticity. One of a woman’s most valued gestures is her smile. If she frequently smiles at you; a beautiful grin that is peculiar from all her other normal smiles, then she most definitely like you.
That particular smile is hard to come-by but when it does, you will tell. If you see it, then chances are that she really likes you.
5. She avoids eye contact
Women are inherently naïve and shy. Eye contact is one of the hardest gestures for a woman to maintain especially with someone she is interested in.
For those who are less shy and able to maintain eye contact, their eyes will twinkle if she is interested in you. Though not all the time, she will occasionally avoid to look directly at you if she likes you.
6. She gave you her number
One obvious thing about women is that they will never give their numbers to strangers or people they don’t like. Even for guys they really like, sometimes they withhold their numbers just to see how far you can go to get it.
Giving you her digits is a clear indication that she would love to keep in touch with you. She enjoys talking to you and would like to do it even when you are away from each other.
7. She follows you on social sites
In a computer driven world, the easiest and most applicable ways of keeping in touch is through website social pages like Facebook, Google, Instagram, Snapchat and many more.
If she requests to follow or accepts your request to do the same and likes you pictures and statuses, she likes you. Ladies will mostly pay attention to things that impress them hence if she finds time to keep in touch online, it is highly possible that she likes you.
8. She hugs you
Body contact is one thing that many ladies are reluctant to have especially with anyone they do not know or like. Normally as a way of say hello, a lady will only shake hands to most of the people she knows in her life.
For people she really cares about or likes, a lady involuntarily gives a hug. If she gives you a hug instead of a mere handshake, she definitely likes and cares about you.
9. She creates time just to see you
Ladies will rarely waste their time with a guy who does not make her happy. If she goes out of her own schedule just to spend time with you, she really likes you.
It can be a minor sacrifice like talking to you during lunch break or even missing out on classes just to hang-out with you.
10. She is herself when she is around you
Ladies will usually have different personalities according to the kind of environment they find themselves in. Rarely will a woman show you her true personality unless she feels relaxed and comfortable around you.
If a lady maintains her normal personality when around you, then it is highly likely that she likes you.
11. She notices you from a far
If a girl really likes you, she will always acknowledge it whenever you are around. Ladies will give attention and recognize you even from a crowd, if she is into you.
Normally women, will ignore everything and everyone else when they are head over heels over a particular guy.
12. She is in a jovial mood when around you
Watch out for her first reaction the first time you see her every day. If she likes you and is interested in you, her first reaction whenever you meet on a new day shows joy and happiness.
If she runs to you smiling every time the two of you meet is a sign that she enjoys your company. This is proof that she most definitely likes you.
13. She tries to please you
A girl who likes you will on various occasions do things with the intention of pleasing you. It may be a simple gesture like taking you out for lunch or giving you a present on your birthday.
The fact that you crossed her mind and made her do that means that she really cares about you.
14. She is playful around you
If a girl likes you, she will naturally grow fond of playing with you whenever you are together. If she is comfortable enough to show her playful side when around you, it is probable that she likes you. Ladies will normally have a stern and serious personality especially when they aren’t at ease.
15. She develops interests in your hobbies
If a girl starts developing feelings towards you, she starts to grow an interest in the things that you do. Most of these activities are activities that she was previously disinterested in but the fact that you like it makes her develop liking for the same.
A good gesture would be occasionally attending your games or even practice sessions. If she frequently comes to watch you play or practice, it is obvious that she is into you.
16. She introduces you to her ‘crew’
Before a lady introduces you to her friends, she ensures that you are capable of being liked by them. Her entire crew will have to take you through a vetting process before they can allow her to continue seeing you.
If she likes you, introducing you to her friends will be one of her priorities. No lady will introduce a guy she dislikes to her friends.
17. Her friends reaction whenever you are around
The way her friends behave when all of you are together can be a clear indication of where you stand regarding her feelings towards you. Normally, her friends will be welcoming and hospitable if they know that she has a soft spot for you.
Other gestures would be whispering at each other and general shyness whenever you hang-out with them.
15. She texts you frequently
In a world where texting is the easiest and most common way of communication, the frequency and speed at which someone texts you depicts your level or urgency to them.
A girl who likes you will swiftly reply to your texts and even stay up late night chatting with you. On the other hand, if she doesn’t fancy you, she may intentionally ignore your texts or even block you from contacting her.
16. She compliments you
If she notices it when you are looking smart or when you do something incredible, there are chances that she has feelings for you. This also includes occasions where she criticizes you whenever do something wrong.
Honesty is a virtue many ladies will extend mainly to people they care about. A girl who has no feelings for you will never be bothered about how you look or even when you mess up.
17. She shows off her body to you
A woman’s most important and sacred asset is her body. Women have the tendency to never show off their bodies unless it is to someone who really means a lot to them. If a woman does not like you, chances are that she will want to cover herself more.
If she is comfortable and relaxed around you, and has developed feelings towards you, she will occasionally feel free to dress scantly when you are around.
18. She distances herself from her friends for you
There is nothing as important in the life of a woman like the ability to hang out with her friends and gossip. It is almost impossible to snatch a lady from her friends to do something else when they are all deep in gossip.
If a lady is willing to leave her friends to instead hang out with you, it is almost obvious that she really likes you.
19. She hints at you that she is single
If a lady likes you, she will frequently utter words or even behave in ways that are meant to show you that she is single and available. This will mainly happen to guys who are slow at reading the signs of a lady who likes you.
The most common utterances of a lady who is single is; ‘I wish I had a boyfriend’ and she will frequently utter the words waiting for a guy to hit on her.
20. She hints at future plans with you
If a lady already possess a prejudiced opinion and plan of her future with you in it, it is obvious that she likes you. A lady who wants you to be part of her future is sending signals that she enjoys being around you and wants the same to continue in future.
If she didn’t like you, your presence in her future would be a bother and she’d definitely not want you to be in it.
21. She introduces you to her family
This is one of the most obvious actions that show you when a girl is in to you. One of the most dreaded occasions for most ladies is introducing boyfriends to their family members especially parents.
A lady who is really in to you will be comfortable to let you meet her family. If she doesn’t like you, she will ensure you never get to meet her family for fear of embarrassment.
22. She confides in you
Generally, all ladies are secretive beings. Rarely will a lady open up to anyone unless its someone they really care about and trust. If a lady is usually free and open to you about personal stuff, then she definitely like you.
Opening up to you is proof that she trusts you well enough to tell you what she would not tell anyone else.
23. She shows signs of jealousy
One of the easiest ways of knowing whether a lady really likes you is through her reaction when she sees you in the company of another lady. Women are born possessive especially on people or things that mean a lot to them.
If she shows signs of jealousy whenever she sees you with other ladies, it is a definite fact that she likes you and does not like it when your attention is on other females and not her.
24. She plays with her hair when she's around you
A girl who likes you will occasionally fidget and feel uneasy around you. In such situations, she may get lost in her thoughts and play with her hair.
According to various testimonies by ladies, rubbing the hair happens when she is lost in deep thoughts especially with someone she really likes.
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